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writes:My girlfriend is being really weird to me lately.She invited me over to her house the other night and I was there for about 40 mins and she told me I needed to leave. We weren't fighting or anything.I usually stay for two to three hours but this time it was different. This has happened about three times now.I want to know what's going on with her. Everytime I ask her about it she gets mad and it always ends up in a fight between us. Is she cheating on me? Do I need to watch out or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 March 2009):
You say asking her starts a fight, but it will only turn into a fight if you fight back.
Calmly sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you any more.
You have to STAY calm with her so no matter how worked up she gets, it won't turn into a fight.
Just tell her that you know something is up with her and you are worried about her.
She won't open up if you are going to start accusing her or yelling so just keep quiet and really listen to her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Well she might. But plan for her to come over to your house or go somewhere were it is quite and calmly ask her whats going on and tell her that you are worried and you dont want to fight.You might want to watch out. But go slow on her.
God Bless.
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