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male
age
36-40,
*had22
writes:Soo I met this girl 6 months ago and we dated for about 2 months. Despite being quite different we really connected and it got serious quite fast. All of a sudden out of no where she broke up with me, but said she wanted to stay friends and keep partying with me. I agreed because I knew I could still get laid but now I regret it sometimes and wish I could have just broken if off then. About one month ago (post break-up) I went to her cabin for a birthday party and the first night everyone got very drunk. She ended up kicking me on the floor instead of inviting me up to her room, and she slept with another guy who was one of her brother's friends. I was very angry and jealous about this.I feel hurt whenever she hooks up with anohter guy even though we have sort of a "friends with benefits" situation happening right now. In the time we have been apart she has slept with about 5 different guys, but I havnet slept with anyone else. Last weekend she told me about this guy she had sex with who had a girlfriend. She was laughing about it even though she admitted to it being a bad idea. That type of "badass" behaviour tends to turn her on.I don't know what to think about this because it makes me want her less, but then we hook up and I end up wanting her again.. We have sex about once a week still. Only after drinking usally. I've never had a friends with benefits situation before so I don't know how to instigate sex with her when we are just hanging out. And we still hang out and talk nearly everyday. Somedays I feel like I'm in love with her and want to start dating her again, and other days I try to forget about her. I am addicted to this girl and can't get her out of my head! I need suggestions of what to do.Should I keep her as a close friend, or will I just end up hurting myself if I remain this attached to her and hope we end up dating again? Thanks!Some additional points: - She told me I'm her best friend and she doesn't want to hurt me.- She think we could date again in the future.- The first time we slept together after breaking up she said: "I like this situation" I agreed at the time but jealously of her with other guys is getting to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): she sounds like a tramp dude.....seriously, would you bring her home to meet your mother......what are you doing gettng emotionally attacheed. Enjoy the ride and let end there....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): Dude forget about that chick! If she's running around screwing different guys every week she is no girlfriend material.
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