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writes:okayy... this will sound kind off complicated, but here goes....I've liked this guy since like 4 years back. I've always look at him from a distance and just observe him when he's around. After some time, I think he notices me observing him because whenever I'm around he'll look at me. That was like 2 years back. Then, after two years, I thought it was stupid liking someone who I don't even know. So I got his phone number from his little brother (who is my age) and sent him a text. And soon enough we became friends. but the thing is, we were only friends through texting. I started liking him a lot once I get to know him. He was such an amazing person. But When we see each other at school, we just look away. I always turn red whenever he's around and I noticed he looked shy when I'm around.Then, one day we had a fight because he was in one of his stressing moods. And so we didn't text each other in weeks. After a few weeks, his little brother came to me. I had never been close to him. We were practically strangers. I only know his name and that he is my crush's little brother. He told me that his brother told him that he liked me a lot and that I'm the first girl that ever drives him crazy. His brother told me that his brother told him that he regretted having that fight with me. I asked him why his brother didn't want to apologize then. and his little brother told me that he's the type of person who finds it hard to say sorry.Soon enough, I became close friends with my crush's little brother. I helped him go through his break up with one of my best friends and he listened to my problems and kept telling me about how his brother felt about me each day. So I made up with my crush.5 minutes after I had made up with my crush, his little brother texted me. I told him I had made up with his brother. My crush's little brother said 'No wonder he came out of his room smiling from ear to ear. Just now he was so moody.' I just lol back.After some time, I feel like my friendship with my crush is falling apart somehow. I feel like there's something different. Then his little brother said he liked me eventhough he knows I like his older brother. Ever since he told me he liked me, my crush stopped texting me. His little brother told me that his older brother knows about 'us'. Which I had no idea about because there was never an 'us' to me. he told me he loved me and I played along not wanting to break his heart because he had been such a good friend to me. After some time, I couldn't lie to him anymore, so I told him it was over because I never really liked him the way he liked me because I was totally madly in love with his brother.I decided that I should get back to my friendship with my crush because I felt guilty, but then my friends told me he's with this other girl. I felt really upset. So I decided I should just keep quiet about it and act all strong. After being together for only a week, my crush and the girl he had been with broke up. Rumours says that he thinks that they don't have chemistry.I wasnt happy, but I wasn't sad either. I just felt shocked. Because when my crush was with that girl, he had looked like he was madly in love with her. Now me and my crush just observe each other from a distance as we did 2 years back.My question is, what do you think made him break up with this girl? because she and him looked so perfect together and always so happy around each other. And do you think what I did was wrong and had something to do with the break up? (when I played with his little brother's heart and then broke it into millions of tiny pieces.)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Yes you acted very wrong here, you should never come in between two brothers, i no you didnt want to break the younger brothers heart but leading him on is twenty times worse. He could have broke up with his girlfriend for many reasons but am sure it was nothing to do with you. You need to try and fix this, tell this crush of your's the truth and tell him that nothing ever happened with his younger brother and that you still like him. Leave it at him then to make up his mind, apologise to both of them, and just hope that he likes you enough to forgive you, good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): i think that he was trying to make you jealous for being with another girl and after he knew the real story he wanted you back so he left the other girl, you should go and speak to him and apologies to him about what you caused for his brother
good luck :)
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