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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I really fancy this guy have done for a year and he knew so it was embarrassing and i couldn't talk to him anymore so we just ignored each other and then someone i know asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said do you not know about me and him and she said no and she asked him why he would not ask me out and he said why should i make the effort when she doesnt, meaning that i wasnt talking to him so i made the effort and he told his friends that i was talking to him again then i took his number and he requested me on facebook.The next thing i told him i missed him when he went home then he told me didn't like me in that way so i was confused even though i still didn't think he fancied me so we were friends then out of the blue he removes me on facebook and he said he doesn't want to hear about me fancying him so right now im upset over him and i cant get over him i want to know why he is being like this
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (24 January 2010):
hi he is not interested so i would forget about him one day you will find the one
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (24 January 2010):
I'm afraid the answer is all too obvious. You fancied him for a year; he was aware of it but made no move to ask you out on a date. After your friend spoke to him and you made an effort to start chatting with him, he then turned round and said he doesn't like you "in that way" and ended up removing you from his facebook listing, and to add insult to injury said he's fed up with hearing about your "fancy" for him.The fact of the matter is he's not interested in you. If he was, he would have approached you a long, long time ago.Your best bet now is to accept that he doesn't want to know you; dry your tears, so to speak, and forget about him. Its a lost cause. Hopefully you will soon meet a guy who does "fancy" you, and you him........
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