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Friend with benefits...Is he falling for me or was he just drunk and wanted to hookup?

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Question - (7 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a guy friend who I used to agree to be friends with benefit 2 years ago. But but we stop for a very long time and pretend nothing happened. Recently, I started hanging out with him again. We get drunk and cuddle in his bed once a week. Last week he called me drunk 2 times and sober 1 time at night. He said he wants to hang out with me and really want to see me. When I said no I can't, he said "you are such a heartache!" Is he falling for me or is he just drunk and wanted to hookup?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

im experiencing the same, only that we're just "kissing friends" he wanted us to have sex but i won't oblige. sometimes i feel like he's really into me but most of the time, i'd say he' just keeping the company for future hook-ups.

get out of that affair fast.

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (7 December 2007):

fishdish agony aunti've...never heard this phrase in america!! well uh i would just wait it out, see how long his interest holds. or, maybe you could meet up with him for like, only a meal and then you'll be better able to read his signals and what he wants out of you. i'd remain skeptical though.

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