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writes: i love a girl.....i tried to tell her my love bt i keep failing whenever i call her...i always get stuck wif the the word 'i'..the other 2 words 'love you' always doesnt come out of my mouth Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 It can be VERY scary to tell someone you love them for the first time. If you want to tell her but can't get the words out, try writing it down instead. Or maybe face the wall so you're not looking right at her. Good luck! New love is so exciting. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Maybe you shouldn't say it, because you two know eath other not for so long. Did you see "How I Met Your Mother" and how the "I love you" worked for Ted, Robin and Barney?Show her your feelings, and don't rush in.
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Hello. Do you have any idea at all why you cant say it? Something is holding you back. But you havent given many details, so its guess work really. It could be that youve said it before to someone else and things didnt work out. So its made you a little afraid. It may be this girl has never said she loves you. And you are worried if you say you love her it might not be returned or it might scare her off. It could be you were brought up around people who didnt speak of love. And its made you uncomfortable mentioning the L word. First of all, really examine how you feel about the girl. Is it love? The real deal? Be totally honest with yourself because when you talk about love to a woman. Shes hearing...you will always be faithful even if your favourite film starlet tried tempting you. You will always love her to distraction even if her butt does look huge in those jeans! You never hurt her. And NEVER ever lie to her...unless her butt really does look huge in those jeans. In which case you will tell her, said butt looks gorgeous in anything...but even better in nothing! My point is. Dont even attempt to say you love her if what you are really feeling is... like. So many people use the word love, when it isnt really what they are feeling at all. And it causes so much trouble. Real love is very selfless. Its spending you time enriching the life of another and protecting them from hurt. Its a deep abiding emotion that colours everyday. If you dont feel that, its probably not love and thats why you cant say it. BUT if that is how you feel, then i hope she feels the same way too. If she does, then youve found something thats as rare as rocking horse doo doo's. So try saying " i love you" out loud to yourself for a while. Get used to how it sounds. And dont worry. One day soon, you will say it quite naturally, when you least expect to.Thats how it happened for me. All the best.
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