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writes:God this is complicated where to begin..my ex and I split 2 yr ago after a 12 yr on/off relationship. everything was wonderful until 4 yr ago when we bought a caravan to spend weekends away however, when we went on a saturday he insisted on returning sunday to have lunch with his mother even though I had 4 grown up children from my marrage.. but off he would go leaving me on my own. When his mother became ill I looked after her bathing her doing her shopping taking her out for drives etc. then one day while at the caravan she totally ignored me to this day I have no idea why.I couldn't stand it anymore I told my it was his mother and he should look after her she needed more help than I could give. I also told my ex I needed a break and he ended the relationship, his mother died and I sent a card and flowers I didn't attend the funeral as I couldn't stand seeing him hurting. After a year we got back together and everything was fine until the hospital changed my medication they told me I would be ill until by body got used to the medication and I told my ex what to expect. After about 10 months he ended the relationship stating it was all my fault. I was so angry I shouted back at him and told him I'd might as well have been on my own for all the notice he takes. At first I was so sorry and told him but he didn't want to know so I got on with my life new job decorated my home got a new car etc etc. Now though I cannot function without thinking about him I'm so desperate to get him back. We see each other every week at the local club and often find ourselves looking at each other he even goes out of his way to drive past my house when he thinks I won't be around I've caught him a number of times and his work is in opposite direction. Is he playing with my mind or dropping hints he want to get back also. I've tried contacting him with no response I've never said anything to our mutual friends should I try through them.I'm so confused please help I love this man so much I can't bare being without him in my life even after all this time.
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reader, princessB  +, writes (29 May 2009):
well your story is interesting, first of all u don't need him, as a matter of fact neither of you guys need eachother although it is hard to put 12 years behind you!! but whats going on here its actually you being used to him. can't blame you, though he has been the man of your life for the past 12-13 years of your life. but move on you guys have broken up too too many times and it just didn't work out for many reasons!!! live your life again, meet somebody new, enjoy your self!!!
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