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female
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41-50,
*ara_philly
writes:So, I found on my boyfriends camera, in his backup memory, a couple photos of a girls VAGINA in his car. I could see her face in the reflection of the mirror in it and I recognize her as a girl I am aquantances with and don't really like. I knew he had hung out with her when her and a friend were partying at a neighbors house and they stopped by because they were drunk and wanted a ride home. He told me he had given her a ride but uhh definitley never mentioned that she was pulling out her vag and posing for pictures on the way there!!!When I confronted him, he tried telling me it wasn't a big deal, that it was just funny thst she was so drunk and acting this way, He had to take a picture and that nothing happened. Actually, he tried telling me it was his buddy in the car with him that took the picture. I 100% don't believe that. Im sure he took the photo and I wonder if he's lying to me about that, is he lying about more? I don't have this girls number so I can't really talk to her about it. He's told me he'll never talk to her again blah blah but when I bring it up he just gets mad at me!!!What should I do? What do you believe?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): ok first off thats not a nice thing to do, second u have to ask ur self how long have u been with this guy, if u only been with him for lets say six months them ok drop him as fast as it takes u to speak if u have been longer then talk to him about it ask him why it happened and second if theres something he fantisizes about taking photos of drunk girls vaginas, speaking from experience ask him what could be happening are u treating ur sex life right and satisfying both ur needs this i believe to be true because thats the way to mess up relationships if u needs arent attended too. talk to him and don't give up or u both be regreting it......
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Come on, the guy is a total douch bag. He has no respect for women, he is lying to you, he's f..cked her and you need to throw him to the curb and don't look back, he isn't worth spitting on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Dump him - email her the photos...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): He's lying. As for the girl, you'd be being kind if you made a point of finding a way to contact her and telling her about it. She may have been so drunk that she didn't know what she was doing, and perhaps a bit of embarrassment and humiliation might make her lift her game a bit and stop behaving like a stupid drunken slut.
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reader, mai mai : D  +, writes (22 December 2009):
if hes gana lie dump him dump him good
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Taking advantage of a drunken girl by taking pictures of her vagina isnt a very nice thing to do. And it sounds as if hes a liar too. I would think twice about this relationship. I think you owe it to your self to look for someone better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): not a believable story. at all. sorry but i'd be very leery of this guy and his stories now. mal
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