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writes: So I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian, I've dated guys but i've always had stronger feelings for girls, lately I have had a crush on my teacher who is 26 and my cousins friend who is 15, I'm also in a relationship that is going down hill very fast. I'm not the type of person who just ups and goes we've had a lot of bad issues. But that's not the case, I really feel a connection with my teacher, she sits and chats with me during class, she allows me to do things other people can't and by all means she is a little flirtasious with me, I can't really say anything to her since she is my teacher but it's annoying. Then my cousins friend is only 15 and I'm 18 and as much as she says she's not interested she fliers with me a lot, and I think she's just scarred of my girlfriend who has treatened her before, but she talks to me for hours and she's not the type to do that, Ive also told her I'd never really be able to be with her because of the age, but she said it's okay she wouldn't tell anyone, but I won't. Plus I don't know what to do with my girlfriend we've had a lot of stuff happen and I can't take much more of the cheating and lying, I really am tired of taking care of her feelings, and I want to take care of myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): are you sure you arent bi?? you need to drop your feelings for your cousins friend...its just wrong, not only for you but for your cousin, she would be feeling really awkward if you hooked up with her friend and your girlfriend sounds like she is very overprotective, she obviously loves you a lot but if you aren't comfortable with her, you need to let her go, having a fling with your teacher is illegal, and are you sure the teacher was flirting or was it different, if your feelings for your teacher are so strong wait untill you've finished school and tell her life only happens once so spend it with who you love!
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