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anonymous
writes: HiI have known this girl for just under a year now and since then we have fallen in love but it went wrong in november, she still loved me a bit and i managed to get her back.But about 5 days ago it happend again and this time she will hardly speak to me, she says she has no feelings for me at all and she is the only person i can talk to about my feelings so I have nobody to tell and ive been trying to talk to her about it but shes got fed up now and text me saying ''i just wanna be friends, it dont matter what you say or do your starting to annoy me now and if u cant accept it delete my number and dont talk to me again''She knows how i feel because unlike me, she has loved before, but i really dont no what to do any more i cant take it.We had been arguing a bit for the last couple weeks before this happend and we don't see each other much because of the distance but we allways made it work.I really want her to be saying ''forever and always no matter what'' again and not ''dont speak to me any more'' what can I do to get her back?Thanks in advanceed
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): you need to move on, she already told she has no feelings for you. she doesnt love you clearly. when that happens theres no way to make someone love you again
because if there was a lil bit of love that she could of have then she wouldnt of tell you lose my number. shes letting you know she never wants to be with you again. and if i were you i would have whats left which is dignity to move on. she doesnt deserve for you to be all on her back when shes pushing you away. if you love her let her go. eventually if she does feel something she will come back to you on her own. but people tempt to lay back when otheres are begging for another chance. and then it never happens. but if you show her that you completely understand and that you are so over the fact that shes
gone then maybe she will miss having you texting her. but if not then im sure there is someone else for you. maybe not now but eventually you will find someone. because alone you are not going to stay. everyoen finds a new love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): Do yourself a favour and listen to what she is saying. You are wasting your time and will only end up feeling more pain if you carry on pursuing an interest in her. She is inviting you to move on, so my advice to you is to do it before it wrecks your self-esteem. You're young, there's a long old life waiting for you with someone that does want to be with you and they will only come along when you set your heart free and when you least expect it. Be brave and good luck!
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