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writes:I'm deeply in love with my girlfriend and she's as old as I am though we are only 16. Her family is isolating her from me since the day they found out... :[ and not only that we both are just bleeding out tears. They are going to immigrate and may not come back this time to keep her away from me... I feel like I lost her and I can't even come close to her at school since her sisters tell the parents everything and it's killing me. I've been sadder than I ever have been :/. I'm not sure what to do here and I need your help on what I should do? Oh and by the way she pretends to be happy at home so her family don't get mad or sad. I do not want to destroy her family just so she can be with me... Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Love will always find a way.
I realize you are in a very difficult situation here and there may be nothing you can do immediately about this situation.
You are kind of vague about her family, their cultural background, their moral standards etc.
These may be part of the reason you are having to deal with this.
However, realize this; if you are as in love with each other as you think you are, whats a few years to wait?
I know of many who have come under various similar situations who have had to wait and did so successfully until they came of age to do what they wanted about their relationship.
Certainly, it will not be easy if it comes down to that and it may be difficult indeed to be able to maintain communication with her.
Why not ask your parent's guidance on this matter. Ask them to sit down with you because you have a serious matter to discuss with them. I am sure they will be more than happy to help you in any way they can.
And as I said, love, true love that is, will always find a way. I do sincerly hope things work out for you. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Ahhh. Bigots. Gotta love 'em.At this juncture there really isn't much you can do. I mean you can sneak around if you wish, but that will only enrage her family more and secure your image as some she-demon out to corrupt their 'perfect little angel'.Basically what you both need to do is sit down with her parents, use the sisters to organise it if you have to. Hell to ensure that they follow the rules all you and the girl have to do is go to YOUR home together and then have your parents mediate the thing and you can all sit down and talk it out.Explain the situation to your parents or they might not understand and send her home.Make sure everyone realises what you are doing, you do out of desperation.I'm not saying it will work out or even work. But a small chance is better than no chance.Flynn 24
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