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*ngel102307
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months about to go on 5. Well, I never really got annoyed about this before but all the sudden lately I've been just wanting to yell at him to STOP!. He always says "you silly girl"... or just "silly girl". I don't know if I'm wrong... or what should I do?! Would you get annoyed by it too? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Hell yes that would annoy me, big time! Go ahead and yell at him to stop next time he says this to you. He's a guy, he's young, hense he needs to be trained. Do yourself and any future women in his life a favor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Hi, this doesn't sound good at all and so early on the relationship. I believe that men only say things once they have actually thought about things so the thought has come into his mind that he finds you silly. I don't think it will ever go away, even if you point it out to him and act strong, he will come back to it in the future when he wants to upset you over something and use it to create a tension.
Ask yourself this question "Could I live long-term with someone who calls me silly" - only you will know deep down how much you can take but my own advice, move on and find someone who wouldn't dream of calling you anything other than positive beautiful things - lots of lovely caring men out there for you.
Good luck x
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female
reader, love-him  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 HEY!!
My partner of two years calls me stupid and stupid b***h.. Tell him you arent happy about him calling you and saying that your silly..!
GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x
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