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41-50,
*unnamuck
writes:Hey guys , I've fallen for guy I used to work with whose recently become one of my good mates .. Before I got to know him I really fell for him pretty hard without knowing he was taken .. He found out i liked him thru a friend of mine ..We talk a bit on fb and he told me he's single .. I told him how I felt about him and he was blown away , he didn't realize it was that big of a crush .. Anyway he's like we will have to hang out sometime so I agreed .. I asked fOr his number and he's like maybe another time , I'm like ok , then he's like sorry for sounding like a bitch , and gave me his number ! One minute he's asking me to hang out next he's not overly keen of given me his number ??
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 Sounds like he isn't THAT into you :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): I think you scared him off with your confession. Guys like to feel like you are a challenge and that they are earning your interest. Big declarations of interest before you even go on a date can come off like you are overly emotional and unbalanced and that is why he was hesitant to give you his number.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 He says meet some time and then doesn't give you his number straight away. Doesn't sound keen to me. Just be careful he is not still with his girl. He may use you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): If someone said that to me, I would assume they weren't really interested in me, even as a friend. So I wouldn't be too enthusiastic about getting together with them.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 June 2011):
 It sounds as if he likes you just as a friend. Maybe it wasn't such a good idea to let him know you have a crush on him........evidently it took him by surprise and he wasn't prepared to quite know how to respond.
Anyway, now you have his phone number. Does he have yours?
I think if I were in your shoes and if he does know your number, I'd wait and see if he calls. Or if not, see if he contacts you on Facebook. If neither of those things happens, you MIGHT, if you so badly want to get together with him, give him a call eventually.
But, I wouldn't put too much hope in it if you have to phone him and he hasn't called you.......
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