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30-35,
*icemike1
writes:hello i need help im about to have my first anal intercourse with someone who i met online and is 10 years older than me he says hes clean but he told me stories about how he lost his virginity and what he likes to do and by the looks of it he seems like a dirty person. I want to do it with him but i dont want any kind of disease. How can i make sure that he is hiv negative or that he doesnt have any other kind of disease. Can giving blow jobs but not swallowing his semen can give me some kind of disease. He wants to do Fisting on me is it safe and can precum increase chance of spreading disease. Thank you.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (14 August 2011):
10 minsk could be a lifetime of pain. What is wrong with you? Never have unprotected sex with anyone for any reason. You can get an STD from oral sex as well. You need to pratice no sex until you learn all the danges of what you did in those 10 mins. You need to be worried dude. If this man had unprotected sex with you, how many othes before you has he done that with. We cannot get a grip on HIV because of situatin like yours. Get real little dude, your spreading infection the way your going. Stop it before it to late. Never in your life should you ever sleep with anothe male/female without protection.
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reader, Nicemike1 +, writes (13 August 2011):
Nicemike1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all for your comments and although it wasnt a good idea we did it but only lasted like less than 10 minutes cuz we werent that ready nobody cum or precum the only thing we did was giving blowjobs for a while rimming and bareback sex is that still bad although we hardly did anything
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 fisting is a warning sign. its an extreme act that is not healthy for your future continence.
i would go with my gut and avoid someone who seems dirty and is into risky behaviours
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 August 2011):
 why do you want to have anal intercourse with a man you do not know who seems dirty? and FISTING? ummm seems a bit extreme at this point.
precum can spread disease
the only way to tell is to have blood work
stay clean wait six months and have blood work again
then you should be fairly safe
I'd still use condoms even after all that.
personally if i had a vote on this i'd vote not to meet his guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): Be careful. There's a big mental age difference from 18-21 to 28-31. If I were you, I'd try experimenting with someone your own age first. This guy could easily take control and take advantage of you. Your question sortof implies that.
The only way you can make sure he is free of STDs is for him to get a medical that you can review. For anal, you should ensure he wears a condom. Yes, giving a blowjob can pass a disease if he has that kind of disease.
Anal fisting for a first-timer is highly improbable. I don't like the sound of that at all.
Seriously, I would not meet this guy.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (12 August 2011):
stop, this isn't how it should be done. 2his guy is a freak and want to play all his fantasy out on you. If your looking for safe sex then talk. Never listen to people that say someone pass is his or her own when it comes to your health and safety. You need to dig deep into this guy past and from the sound of it, go to his very first interaction with a sex partner. Condoms helps but nothing is 100 per cent but absent from it.
Any partner you have straight or not who will not submit to an STD testing isn't for you. Why would he want to put his fist in you? He wants to because ur a lay and an easy targets for a quickie. I wouldnt sleep with this guy unless i am willing to and accept the risk that surely would come with this encounter.
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