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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): It does hurt the first time, its not too bad but if you're not expecting it to be painful it can be a nasty surprise!! Guys don't have a problem as it doesn't hurt them so talk to him if you're worried about it hurting tell him, if he really loves you as much as you think he does he'll understand!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2005): Yes it hurts most people, but if he is considerate and doesn't rush through it it shouldnt be too bad. But after you do it more and more it gets really good!xx
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reader, joonie +, writes (12 April 2005):
YES, but you have to get it over with sooner or later...not going to sugar coat this one...
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (8 April 2005):
 This really does depend on the individual and who the individual is with! When you make love for the very first time, if your partner is considerate and takes their time, making sure that you are aroused and enjoying foreplay, then it is less likely to feel uncomfortable than with someone who is eager to get to the final stage. To be able to make love and take pleasure in the activity, a man or a woman should be sufficiently aroused.Some people find it doesn't hurt at all when they first have sex. With a woman, if her hymen is still attached (which is a thin layer of tissue located at the vulva of the vagina) there can be some discomfort when this is broken perhaps through intercourse. However, much of the time, this has already been broken through other exercise. For a man, there may again be a little discomfort if the woman isn't sufficiently aroused and moist to allow him to enter.So really, it does depend on who you are with. If you take it nice and slowly and with consideration then pain should really be at the minimum.I hope this reassures you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2005): Not if you're a guy !
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