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36-40,
*ourhandholdingmine
writes:im single. super single. have never been into a relationship before.. have quite a number of male suitors but am not interested in them! i think im gay, and i feel soo trapped. im tall with athletic body, decent looking, but have yet to attract any girls (not that i know of anyway). i have decided to come out! gay/straight/bi girls, give advice to start my first step....
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reader, kittykhaos  +, writes (28 May 2009):
 Never try and settle you will spend your life miserable. If you don't club i guess you could try web sites i have never tried this but i may work for you :) We all fear we wont find out soul mate but you have to try before you can fail at something. Do you go to college or university? Maybe there is a gay and lesbian association you can meet people at :) Don't give up and don't ever use someone as "cover" Your friends and family will still respect you if your gay it just may take them time to get used to the idea. x
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reader, yourhandholdingmine +, writes (28 May 2009):
yourhandholdingmine is verified as being by the original poster of the question im not sure if i can find any gay pubs in where i live, but basically i don't club (not often).. but i'll try!
im only worried that i'd never get to find my soul-mate, and might end up marrying some guy and use him as a cover...and i nearly did...:/
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (28 May 2009):
Hay :) I am a straight girl who gets a lot of female attention. Im 6 foot athletic and feminine. If you want to attract girls, you have to go to the kind of bars lesbians go to. Maybe if you have a good friend to go with to boost your confidence. Also you should try and make some gay/lesbian friends and not look for a g/f straight away, get used to the scene and how it works with out the pressue of jumping straight into sexual encounters. Good luck and i hope your friends and family support you :)
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