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writes: Should you sleep with a guy you really like on a first date after months of texting?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (8 March 2006):
 Well if you like him and are gonna do it anyway, why do you care about other peoples opinions. just go ahead and do it.
The sensible opiton tho is to get to know somebody before you have sex with them in order to judge their character and to see if any chemistry lies between you. That way you can protect yourself if things go wrong.
But hey, u will do what you wanna do anyhow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006): WHY NOT? I LYK HIM...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2006): Why are you asking us? Ultimately, it's your choice. Don't care what others tell you. We will all always have something to say about what we think. What do you think? If you're okay with it, go for it. If not, obviously, don't do it.
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reader, ShrinkingViolet +, writes (19 February 2006):
 Personally I wouldn’t, but it depends on your past history with him. If you’ve only know him for as long as you’ve been texting, then I would give it a few more dates to see what the chemistry is like. I think texting is seen as an easy way out of not talking to someone, why don’t try calling him and speaking to him to get to know him a better before you get to down to business.Plus, if the only contact you’ve had has been texting for months and he’s still into you, I’m sure he’ll wait a few dates.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (19 February 2006):
 I agree with the first reply. its up to u really but i wouldntsleep with him just yet. i would first get to know him better. you guys are just meeting up even though u have been texting for months.
Goodluck.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (19 February 2006):
 only if you really want to, I would not as texting is not a real relationship and you dont know what he is really like, why do you feel you want to sleep with this guy, what is the rush.
If he is putting pressure on you then no you should not sleep with him, relationship first, bed later.
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