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female
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41-50,
Alisa
writes:Over the summer I wrote 3 articles Wives who let their husbands cheat? How to move on after your married lover dump you? Mistresses we need stop! After 2 years of dating, 4 years of freindship my married lover moved to another state without saying goodbye, and no call afterwards. 4 weeks before he left, we went on a 5 day trip. 2 weeks afterward he confessed to his wife about the affair, because she wasn't getting jealous about what he was doing. She seemed like when they move back to their hometown: She was leaving. I knew he was moving, and things were going to end for us. I thought that we were going to be good friends. He decided he didn't want that. He couldn't tell me. He just disappeared. I was mess. I honestly thought I would never get over what my married lover did to me. Suprise I got thru it. I got thru it with no bitterness. I really found peace in my life. I started focusing on me, and surrounded myself with positive people. I'm not dating anyone. I'm not ready too. I'm just learning how to indulge in hobbies, and activities that I enjoy. Most importantly, I'm learning to accept being alone, and not allowing myself to feel lonely. My loniliness is what drew me into the arms of a married man. I don't ever want to be involve in a situation like that again. I'm spending my free time with family, and hanging out with girlfriends. I don't believe in being friends with men, that I'm not related to anymore. When I decide to date again, I will approach it as courting. Writing articles really helped me to heal emotionally. I never heard from the married guy I was dealing with. I guess he did me a huge favor. I hope my story can inspire women that been dumped by their married lovers, that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Yes it will be hard work, but it's possible. Maybe one day us ex mistresses can find love with our own man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): But the problem is the more you women screw married men, the more married men think they can get away with it, wives don't let them get away with it some of us don't know, I found out and beleive me I tried everything in my power to leave, I didnt want anything financially,
he begged me to stay, saying all bad things about this woman he slept with and met online...it was an experimental thing he says calling her skank..
men are in it for sex...no strings attached..because they have thier lives already set.
I am sorry but mistresses deserve the life they get after a married man treats them like crap...
Married men owe the mistress nothing...
The only women in these relationships who deserve apologies are the wives who are the REAL VICTIMS!!!!!!!!!
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reader, ladieek +, writes (12 November 2009):
This article was really inspiring I'm dating a married man and I work with him. I hate his guts and he been doing everything in his power to try and get me to leave or be upset with him. I wish I could find another job so I don't have to see his ugly ass face every morning.
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