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writes:Well, my question is difficult. Can girls cum? I recently had protected sex with my boyfriend and when we'd finished I noticed a lot of white cum-like fluid from inside me. I assumed it was my owm cum, but I can't help but worry that maybe the condom split. Would we have noticed if it did split afterwards? He stood up and he would have probably told me if he noticed it had split. Should I maybe see a doctor to be sure? What do you suggest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): LOL gutted
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes that is my correct age, I'm turning 16 in a month now. Thankfully enough, I've come on my period. I've been to the clinic also before this and they said all is fine. They told me to continue to do what I think is best as long as I use protection and offered me the pill.Thanks for the help guys!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Feeling a tad patronised will be the least of your problems, should you accidently become pregnant and give birth at 14-15 years of age, dear. At least I am assuming that's the proper age here, as listed at the top of your posting.
You may feel all grown up,enough to have sex, but as I said before, I feel you are too way too young to shoulder the responsibilty of being a young teen Mother. You need to think very seriously about what you are doing, now. Just use your head, hun. And look out for you and your future. Having an unplanned baby is not likely in the cards for you, is it.
I honestly think you need the counsel, support and caring of an older, wiser female relative like an Aunt, cousin, Sister..even your Mom, for proper sex education. If you can't get it from them, perhaps the people at the local clinics can help you. Take care and best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): There are morning after pills that a doctor can give you. I would definately get one, your bf may not have the courage to tell you the truth of the matter.
An unwanted pregnancy is a life changing event and not to be taken lightly.
My gf sometimes 'cums' and it is really weird for me as a guy to experience it me when it happens, her fluid is always clear and sometimes leaves a wet spot on the sheets as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help really informed me, even if I do feel a tad bit penalised. I don't regret it, we took precautions. Yes it's not legal but every teenage site everywhere tells me to have sex when I feel ready. I don't mean to sound argumentative, I just feel a tad patronised. I do thank you all for the advice, I will think long and hard about my future sex life and I'll probably make an appointment with my doctor as the odds are against me that it was my own cum. I'm not entirely sure where it came from though so I can't judge by that, and the colour was slightly white if I recall correctly. Thank you :)
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 Carefully consider what "Irish49" says. Very wise. Sexual intimacy that includes vaginal intercourse invites life changing circumstances. I fully understand the urges, desires and all that, but hand-jobs, blow-jobs, clitoris-licking and a good amount of foreplay without intercourse is the smarter alternative at your age, if you must explore your sexuality. Masturbation is an even a better choice for awhile.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): We have no way of telling you a clear answer to your question. If the condom did split, he may not necessarily tell you. you know him...so only you know if he's be upfront and honest with you about this sort of thing. Some guys are, some aren't, depending on their level of maturity and caring for you. As for ejaculate, everyone is unique and has different levels of ejaculate. I would suggest you wait it out until your next period cycle. Or you can get to local pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test, dear. And an added note. I do think you are swimming out of your depth, having sexual relations at such a young age, though. Be careful that there is absolutely no 100% surefire method out there to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. Whenever very young, adolescent, healthy couples have sex, just remember, just one act of intercourse can alter their lives forever. So unless you have the resources, the finances, the maturity to shoulder the monumental responsibility of a a new life, such as a baby, I suggest you think long and hard about your future. If you are having these sorts of situations in your life, now at the age 13-15, your biggest problem, is not only a possible pregnancy.but how you truely value yourself..I think it's time for some reflection on your part. Give some careful thought to your behaviors. Good luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): Yeah, my wife sometimes ejaculates as DoubleM said, but it doesn't come from the vagina and the fluid is completely clear. Whitish thick fluid from inside the vagina can be one of 3 different things as I understand. It could be the man's cum, but he should have noticed if the condom had split. Some women also produce a lot of internal lubrication and sometimes it is somewhat whiteish. Another possibility is a vaginal yeast infection. The yeast is white and will flow out some after sex, especially if the woman produces a lot of lubrication during sex. If this has just happened one time then I would have to guess it might be his cum, but it could be that you have a new mild yeast infection. My wife had one a couplke of months ago. It was mild and she had none of the normal signs, like itching. It was detected by her annual PAP test. It might not be a bad idea to see your gyno for a professional opinion.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 March 2008):
A small percentage of women ejaculate a usually clear, watery form of semen through their urethra. It is produced by a couple of glands inside near the urinal tube, and I suspect the glands are somewhat of a counterpart to the male prostate gland. As I understand it, and according to what I have read, the fluid is rarely if ever creamy or milky colored, as is often a man's cum. Again, it is not ejaculated through the vagina, although a good deal of lubricant and other hormonal juices are excreted through ducts in the walls of the vagina. A "lot" of cum-like fluid from inside your vagina very likely indicates the condom failed, and you should consider pregnancy testing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): Yes honey, girls can cum. It's probably just yours to be honest, because often a guy feels the condom getting really tight around the head of his penis when it's about to split. If he didn't mention anything, then this is probably just you :] Can I just add, I don't think you don't need to see a doctor like another aunt advised, only get an appointment if you miss a period or think you're pregnant or something :] good luck.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (15 March 2008):
 See a doctor. (Oh btw, yes, females can gush...look up female ejactulation on wikipedia.)If it did split, You have my condolensces.
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