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writes:since I have broken up with my girlfriend, I’ve been feeling lonely and a bit lost of late. was on facebook the other day and came across this lady who is from los angles. she’s really beautiful and we immediately became friends on facebook. she started speaking to me, right away and she says I’m a funny guy and trustworthy. she says that I’m the only person she has talked to. I don’t know if that’s true or not, but that doesn’t matter to me. she sent me some pictures of her to me and I sent some of me to her and we seem to talk everyday to each other. she’s been trying to get and persuade me to get into her panties.should I meet her for sex and take this opportunity? help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2022): Sniff, sniff! I smell a rascal!
I don't think this is a legitimate post, I think it's someone pulling our leg. What kind of advice are you looking for?
I'll tell you this. I'd be very careful about who could be at the other end of these messages you're receiving. It is very common for images and stock photos to be stolen, and used in scams and phishing. People in the sex industry have lots and lots of photos on file; and anybody can find them and use them to assume a fake identity and profile online.
Porn actors are paid for their performances, they don't do freebies; while some are known to have side-gigs; or to be sex-workers (dancers, strippers, prostitutes, paid escorts) on the side to supplement their incomes. Unlike film stars in the movie industry, they don't make tons of money in feature films or rise to that level of fame.
If she is who she says she is, I see no big deal about any of this. It's not uncommon for someone who makes a living in the porn industry to use the internet to draw followers, fans, and admirers. At best, she's just trying to create a following; and will probably charge for private cam performances. First she has to reel you in. If you're sending her nudes and d!ck pics, better hope she's the real-deal, and is actually a "she!" Not meaning a trans-female, but an actual guy who likes to get nude photos from men. If you've live face-timed or Skyped, and know it's a real person; don't be surprised if you don't find your own images out there being used as amateur porn.
If you're going for the bait, keep your eyes open. I sense a caveat hiding in the bushes. I sense even moreso that this is just troll bait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2022): If you believe her, why are you asking this?
Ask her out for coffee and when she replies "oh wait I need $2500 to get my car fixed to drive to the coffee shop," you'll have your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2022): There has been a poster to dear cupid for some weeks now, always male 30-35 who writes ridiculous posts like this and ends them with 'help me' or some such.
I may be wrong that it's the same person, but wanted the other aunts and uncles to be aware of this and if they think it's the same person as I do, to maybe not waste their precious time on this individual.
Check back through the posts from males 30-35 these last few weeks and see what you all think. They have the same tone and the same last phrase.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2022): Reminds of the Identity Theft Insurance ad where the kid is on the computer and says "Mom, what's your four hundred and one password?" The kid is 10, you're 30. Wise up. She playing you. PS Get some of the insurance. My Auto Club has it free for members.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 February 2022):
 "she says that I’m the only person she has talked to."
Seriously? You really believe that?
It might not even be RUN by her. It can be some dude in a basement anywhere in the world, hoping you are dumb enough to fall for this.
Just wait, she will ask you for money soon.
Also, let's pretend that this is actually her. The porn star.
DO you think the sex you are going to have is going to be just like the porn she makes? Yeah, because porn is real, right?
Dude someone is running a scam on you. And you are thinking with your dick and forgetting you have a brain.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (26 February 2022):
 I agree with YCBS, this sounds like some sort of scam to me and i would be very very careful if you were contemplating pursuing this as it could ultimately turn out to be a very costly venture for you.
If something sounds to good to be true, that is because it often is.
I would advise not acting on this at all, and blocking her.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (26 February 2022):
 Oh dear. Are you really so gullible and naive in your 30s? Or is this a fantasy you think would be fun to tease us with? I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume it is realm, in which case every bit of your post screams SCAM! You are just so desperate for female company, you refuse to see it.
"we immediately became friends on facebook" - because a beautiful (alleged) porn star would accept every strange male's request on Facebook if there wasn't an ulterior motive.
"she started speaking to me, right away and she says I’m a funny guy and trustworthy" - typical scam. Pretend you trust them so they will feel they SHOULD be trustworthy because that is what is expected. She doesn't know you from Adam so why should she tell you that you are "trustworthy"?
"she says that I’m the only person she has talked to" - of course she's going to say that. Ask yourself, what have YOU to offer that no other males have? "She" is probably half a dozen or more different phone operators, grooming you to get your money. Wake up.
"she sent me some pictures of her to me and I sent some of me to her" - I hope your pictures were just innocent ones and not anything which can be used to blackmail you. The pictures "she" sent were unlikely to actually be of her but were used as bait to get you to trust her (there's that word again) and send some of you. Lock down your Facebook page so "she" can't see your friends/family members on there and threaten to contact them to show them any compromising pictures you sent her if you don't pay up. It's probably already too late as the contacts have probably already been downloaded. If you haven't sent any compromising photos, make sure you don't.
"we seem to talk everyday" - of course you do. You are being groomed. Brainwashing and grooming alike rely on constant repetition and constant contact.
"she’s been trying to get and persuade me to get into her panties" - because a beautiful female porn star would be so short of offers, she would need to "persuade" men to have sex with her.
My advice:
- Cut contact with "her".
- Block her on your social media.
- Get out more and meet real women.
- Wise up. You are in your 30s. Stop being so naive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2022): Talk about arrogant and big headed! Your girlfriend dumped you, she was a very ordinary woman who is nowhere near as good looking as a porn star, nowhere near as popular, no chance to get rich generous men. Yet she dumped you. Then you get it into your head that a woman who is more popular than her, better looking, sexier, and who can easily get a generous good looking rich man with class and charm will want you????Not only that but you think she is desperate - actually desperate - as if no other man wants her and she has to make do with you??? Not only that but she only wants you for sex?So she - a porn star - know no man who wants sex with her?She has no way of pleasing herself without you? She could charge thousands for half an hour of sex with her!And plenty would be eager to pay her that. She could check out that their looks are fine and all the rest first and still get plenty who she fancies eager to payYet YOU think she is so desperate she will make do with a guy like you? A guy who is offering her nothing at all?You are not even talking about love, romance, dating, getting to know her as a person, just a piece of fleshto be used! How insulting is that. She earns a very good living being a piece of flesh to guys, she gets lots of guys wanting her, where would you fit in?A nice normal guy would be asking her to go out on dates with him, and be grateful to be out with her. Not meet for sex on first meet. How gross.Most ordinary women would say get lost to that. And you expect someone who can be a lot more fussy and is a lot more popular to be so desperate she says yes.This is either a man pretending to be a woman so that he can scam you out of money - he offers you a lot of great free sex if you first pay for this and that. And, of course, no sex follows.Or a wind up.No woman would be a porn star and that desperate.Or that crap at business. I can just imagine her telling some guys she knows that no she will not go on holiday with them or sleep with them in return for x thousands of dollars, because there is a low life on face book who was dumped by his girlfriend and wants it all for free.Has it never occurred to you that she has feelings? That she gets sick and tired of guys just ogling her body and wanting her for sex. The sort of guy she would go for is more into romance, love, a serious relationship, taking care of her needs, not just his?You say you are 30 - 35 but you talk like a stupid boy at school who has just discovered wanking. And you have no respect for women.No wonder your girlfriend dumped you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2022): If you really believe a porn star was chatting to you and wants to meet you for sex I feel sorry for you. A porn star is getting fan mail from loads of guys,many of them have more charm and better looks than you, many of them will be offering her free holidays, expensive presents and all sorts just to be able to go out with her for a drink. She does not need to throw herself at just anyone or settle for someone who just takes advantage of her body. Get real.
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