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*pumie
writes:Hi all. I just want know if its okay of me to think like this. I've never cheated in my whole life whereas my boyfriend has done it a numerous times at once he had a baby with someone else because of that. He can't type and send a romantic sms ever since I've dated him. I've dated him for 6 years and I know cheating when I see it because he has done it before. Today he sent me an sms whereby I can tell that it came from someone. I'm 100 percent sure that it comes from a woman because he doesn't know how to chart, type nor send a romantic things. It is completely out of character for him to do this ever.So I know the difference when it's him and when he has just forwarded the message from some one else . Am I wrong to be using my intuition and wrong to be so suspicious of him that I think like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, mpumie +, writes (18 October 2012):
mpumie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much for your advices!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2012): Did you use your intuition when he cheated on you numerous times before and were your suspicions correct when he cheated on you numerous times before? He knows he can walk all over you as he has numerous times before because you'll let him get away with it as you have numerous times before.Even if you uncover indisputable proof that he's cheating on you as he has numerous times before then your intuition will tell you not to trust your own judgement as it has numerous times before, but confront him instead, as you have numerous times before, and then your intuition will tell you to want to believe that lame self-serving on-the-fly BS cover story that is an insult to your intelligence, as it has been numerous times before, and then the number of numerous times he has cheated on you before will now be one more than the previous number of numerous times he cheated on you before, because he has absolutely zero respect for you.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (17 October 2012):
 HI
No one can say if it's wrong or not, only you will know in your heart what you feel. However don't stress unless you have PROOF that it was someone else sending the message on his behalf. That said I think it's kinda sweet that he wanted to send you a romantic text and got some help, as you already said he can't do that imself. Atleast his taken the time to think of you and get the help to send you it!! I actually don't understand why though , why would you stay with a man who has fathered a child with someone else from cheating on you and take him back? are you that unconfident that you wont find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve?? either way you chose to stand by him so give the guy a break, so he got someone else to write the message but the thought was there , why is this not good enough for you? I think your looking for excuses now to get out.
Mandy x
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