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writes:dear cupid, i really need your help. Im 18 years old and in college. i waited until i was 18 to have sex and it was a drunken one night stand that turned into a semi relationship for a month and a half. then i had sex with this guy who i don't even know his last name and he doesn't know mine just because i didn't want it to get out and we had sex once. and i just had sex with this guy last night because we were makin out and he kept pulling it out even after i said no repeatedly and then he shoved his finger in me and i just said oh well sure. i didn't enjoy it at all. so three people i have slept with. am i a whore or what? i only claim the month and a half one. please give some kind of advice im really low right now and thats unusual for me. I have lots of friends. i always feel great about myself. please give me your opinions good or bad on the situation thank you!
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 In a liberal society like the United States, most young people are exposed to many sexual adventures at an early age. You should not think that you are a whore for experiencing sex. A whore uses sex to earn money, so you are not.
However you should be aware of a host of different problems, diseases transmitted through sex or illnesses that could be contracted which are not classified as sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
One of the lethal killers on the rise in liberal societies is cervical cancer. We don't know exactly what causes cervical cancer, but certain risk factors are believed to have an effect. Medical history and lifestyle - especially sexual habits - play a role in a woman's chances of developing cervical cancer. One factor is HPV.
Human papillomavirus (HPV) is a virus that can infect:
(1)The genital tract
(2)The external genitals
(3)The area around the anus
HPV has nothing to do with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. There are 46 genetic types of HPV, but not all are dangerous. Only certain types of HPV, which can be transmitted from one person to another during sexual contact, increase the risk of cell dysplasia (abnormal cell growth) and/or progression to cervical cancer.
The HPV types that produce genital warts (lesions that are raised and bumpy, or flat and almost impossible to see) are different from those that cause cervical cancer. However, women who have a history of genital warts have almost twice the risk of an abnormal Pap smear as other women.
All men from the north pole to the south, from east to west have HPV. To avoid cervical cancer, stop engaging in multiple sex partners and stop engaging in sex at early age.
Come to think of it, someone posted a problem regarding cervical cancer. You might want to check it out:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/would-you-get-an-abortion.html
There is much more in love than in sex. Love is more superior than sex. Maybe you should keep your options open for a more meaningful relationship in the days to come.
My advice: Keep your heart open for true love.
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reader, MoonlightDrive70  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 No, your not a whore, I've slept with more guys than that and I pretty much only sleep with women.
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