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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i feel completely unloveable...all my relationshops have ended horribly, and virtually no-one shows me any interest. I'm 19 and 5 ft 8 ...size 16 -18 and slightly alternative.... all i can conclude is that im fat and ugly ....please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 March 2010):
You cannot expect anyone to love you if you do not love yourself. People are drawn to people who are cheerful, have confidence and self-respect. Size 16/18 is not grossly overweight at all. You may not like it and you can work on it, but it can't stop you from dating at all. Just have a positive attitude because what you think about yourself is what others will see. You tell yourself you're unlovable? That's all the guys see too. Start telling yourself positive things and others will be drawn to you more.
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reader, Angzw +, writes (13 March 2010):
You cannot expect anyone to love you if you do not love yourself. People are drawn to people who are cheerful, have confidence and self-respect. Size 16/18 is not grossly overweight at all. You may not like it and you can work on it, but it can't stop you from dating at all. Just have a positive attitude because what you think about yourself is what others will see. You tell yourself you're unlovable? That's all the guys see too. Start telling yourself positive things and others will be drawn to you more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answers =] x
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reader, Kenj +, writes (13 March 2010):
 In a relationship if a guy truly loves you your height and body size will not make one bit of difference. He will see and love you for the person you are.
Dont put yourself down, there will be someone out there for you who will love and respect you and admire you for the wonderful person you are.
If your nerveous about meeting people then you could try on-line dating (use common sense) and *Never* give up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): The best way to attract others is by being positive. Like yourself first. Do interesting things and most of all show genuine interest in others. When you are happy and have an inner glow actual physical attributes somehow don't matter so much. When you are beautiful on the inside, you will want to optimize your beauty on the outside as well and it all works together. A genuine confident smile and inner glow are irresistable. Check out datingwithoutdrama.com
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