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writes:I've been really depressed for a long time now, feeling like I have nothing to live for. but then around a year ago, at school, I met a girl in my class. She was a good friend of mine for a while. She was nice and beautiful inside and out. I started to like her a little, but then I started to like her more and more. I had never had feelings so strong for a girl before. I knew that I was in love for the first time. People say there's always light at the end of the tunnel, that there's always a way out of depression. To me, it felt like she was the light at the end of the tunnel. I didn't know what to do, I couldn't tell her. I felt so nervous around her and couldn't talk much. We drifted away a bit because I didn't talk to her much anymore. But my feelings for her didn't go away. later on near the end of the year she got a boyfriend. It made me feel so down seeing them together. In the Christmas holidays, I was talking to her on msn, She still had her boyfriend. I decided to tell her how I felt about her, because she was leaving to go to another school and I probably wouldn't see her again.She told me that she loves her boyfriend, and not me. I felt so bad. It's been more than a month now, she goes to another school and I can't see her anymore. It's bringing me down so much. I can't get over this. I don't want to get over this. I need her so much and I don't know what to do?
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reader, peace143  +, writes (26 February 2011):
life is beautiful. big world too. you need to see it first. remember to love yourself first and that will show. you have to love yourself. get out there. so many wonderful things to see. find who you are then try to find a women the same as you. good luck in life
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Ah my dear friend, welcome to the real world. Sadly, the story you are describing is happening all the time to all people in the world of all ages, not just you. It is part of life...it will probably happen again to you and vice versa, that is, a girl will approach you one day that you don't realy like and you will break her heart. These things happen it's a fact. What you must do, and you will learn this as you get older, on every fall you MUST figure out a way to get up and continue. As Freddy Mercury sings in his song (but you are probably too young to know him) "The show must go on!" Don't give up yet, be a man and do not allow a girl to lead you to deppression. Above all, be a man never forget that. Best wishes buddy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): I know its hard, having your heart broken is always hard, but you will get through it, although you may feel you have nothing to live for you do, you have everything, its just a matter of embracing the pain you feel and using it positively. Like you said you and her were good friends she would hate you feeling like this, find another focus do you have a hobby, knuckle down on study, you have a whole life in front of you. This is a learning curve and will make you a rounded person. I understand its devastating but give yourself time to heal dont rush it, each day will get easier I promise. Take things a day at a time and focus on the good things in each day. Keep strong
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