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Feel like I'm going to be all fingers and thumbs when it comes to making the next move... ?

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Question - (29 June 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2006)
A female , *ove bug writes:

Hiya me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over a week and I know that he has done things with his girlfriend in the relationship before and im a complete virgin but want to take the next step with him. I really want to give and receive pleasure but am worried I don't look up to scratch down there and also im worried if I give him a hand job or give him head what exactly do I do? I feel stupid asking but I don't want to get it wrong and look stupid please help! thanks x

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A female reader, *lola* +, writes (1 July 2006):

*lola* agony auntThere is a first time for everything. Everybody gets nervous their first time even your bf did! But just relax and don't rush into things you are not ready for.

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A female reader, love bug +, writes (30 June 2006):

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no he hasnt made any moves and i no he would wait for me, I have known him for years and he has always been my best friend I know he's not interested in one thing, but when it does get to that moment of giving oral I just wondered what you did so Im ready for when it happens!

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A male reader, Dr. Reality Check United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2006):

Dr. Reality Check agony auntHey! Don't be so keen to give up sex to him. While he may seem like a good guy right now, you really dont know him that well. If you give it up so soon, he will treat you as a doormat for sex any time he wants.

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A female reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (29 June 2006):

Hot (Advice) agony auntJust a week is that all? Do you want to give your virginity to someone so quickly after knowing them for like 5 minutes? Now think carefully, once you go down that road there is no turning back. Wait longer to see how he really feels for you. I think he may just be interested in getting physical with you, has he put any preassure on you in this respect? If he has then you need to back off, if he really cares about you honey, he'll wait until you are good and ready and not before! xx

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