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writes: Hello,
I'm so confused. There's this guy that i've known since Kindergarden. We've have been friends for 8 years and as we got older we've always had hidden feelings for each other. The only problem is... that we've never admitted it to each other because we were always were with someone else. I decided to take a chance and tell him 2 days before i moved. I couldnt stand the thought of not telling him ever. I told him and he was happy i told him. i slept over his house and we kissed!!! the thing is i had a boyfriend at the time and he knew it. we both knew it was wrong... but we knew we wouldn't be able to spend time like that again. I have extreme feelings for him and everything happened so fast. We both dont regret it but we both wish it was better timed.... I guess everything happens for a reason... I told my boyfriend what happened. He wasn't as mad as i thought he'd be. He became more attached and more clingy. I couldn't look him in the eyes, i couldn't kiss him. I felt sooo guilty even though he forgave me. If we were really meant to be for each other... I wouldn't be attracted to someone else, let alone be in love with someone else. right? i broke up with my boyfriend. It was too much to handle and i needed to get my head straight. The big problem now is that my kindergarden buddy doesn't think i shouldn't reserve my feelings for him. He says he cant handle anymore relationships expecially long distance. He's been hurt too many times and so have i. I really really am in love with him. I've hidden my feelings for so long...for years. What should I do? We're still good friends but what do you do when you don't want to lose that person to someone else? i know its kind of hypocritical... but i just had to follow my heart. Love happens at the craziest times. I dont know what to do. I really want to be with him but i know long distance doesn't work and i dont want to ruin our good friendship. We both have hidden feelings. Should i keep them hidden? Should i move on because this hurts likes hell. I'm so confused. Please help
With lots of love,
The confused one...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2006): Hi,
I am sorry to hear about this but the best thing to do his tell him exactly how much you love him and you just want to be with him
goodluck (sorry i couldn't be much help)
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