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*mcurioustoo
writes:So here's the story, my cousin is a pathological liar, emotionally retarded and cannot keep her pants buttoned and male genetailia out of her mouth, she passes out blow jobs like hand shakes, basically we've never got along, im a pretty good girl, I've been with one person and am in a very happy and healthy relationship, basically my cousin, lets call her becky always talks trash about me, causes problems between my self and good friends of mine and spreads nasty rumors all the time, so I got sick of it, I got sick of her texting me saying that no body in my family cares about me but my mother and grandma that my family laughs about me and gossips about me as well.. So for once in my life I stopped caring what the rest of the family would say and stood up for myself, I said to becky she's a liar a whore and a complete disgrace in my opinion, that im tired of guys coming up to me telling me about their sexual activities with her, and that all her problems, she brings upon herself. I told her that enough is enough and called her some nasty names, but I was upset. Then a week or so later, she goes around school and says that a dean of our innapropriatly touched her, which she said to me and a few others, so I was called to the office and had to explain what it was I was told, and I did.. Long story short , she lied and said she never said it, the whole family is mad at me thinking its all me and that im lying and I don't know what else to do or say to them, I need some advice and help guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): Your cousin talks trash about you? you started your post talking trash about her. Before you take it upon yourself to go through serious channels you should have gathered all the facts. If you knew she was a bit of a tramp then why did'nt you question this alligation???
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reader, c.ainslie.89  +, writes (11 September 2009):
"is a pathological liar, emotionally retarded and cannot keep her pants buttoned and male genetailia out of her mouth"
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): Just stick to your values. Don't give up!Trust me, some people, even if they're family, just never really change. That's not your fault. In the end, all you can do is to promise yourself to never adopt any of their faults, and endure this as best you can till you can cut off contact with them with few repercussions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): You did the right thing in standing up to her bullying, that is what she is, a bully. Bullies always target someone that actually is a good person and who has principles because you are more vulnerable to threats and because she actually sees you as someone who doesn't fall for her act.
The way to handle a bully is just as you did, they are cowards and you called her out on it.
I wouldn't worry about your family calling you a liar and being mad at you either, if they have the small mindedness to think family first at all costs then they are hopeless.
Don't give into their intimidation or act sheepish or apologetic, just stand strong and they will eventually come around. Try to avoid discussing it in an argumentative way, just tell them that when they are ready to hear the truth and stop crapping all over you, you will be happy to talk until then you've got nothting more to say.
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