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36-40,
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writes:Hi I have a horrible feeling i've fallen for my bestfriend every1 automatically thinks we're a couple anyhow, and he is amazing but i know his ex's and i know what he likes in girls and while he's not shallow he's not into girls like me, just doesn't find how i look attractive and this never bothered me, never would have if i hadn't totally fallen for him , i can;t stop thinking bout him,its awful , i'm just hoping he wont find out cause i think it'd freak him out and i really value his friendship but know theres no chance of anything more how do i cope? please all advice v. welcome i'm so confused and down about this its the worst thing that could have happened
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Don't assume that just because you're not like his ex girlfriends that he wouldn't like you! There is probably a reason why they are his EX girlfriends! You should try maybe getting someone else to bring it up and ask him to find out what he thinks. Get one of his or your friends that you trust to bring it up casually that they think you two would be a good couple or something like that and see how he reacts.If he's not going for it, there's not much you can do or you might risk losing your friendship with him.
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