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writes:hi, this sounds daft but, im a 35 year old gay man, and a mate of mine for 4 years, i fell for just recentley, thing is i cant get him out my head. ive been single for so long now, nearly 8 years, and i just really found myself growing close to him. anyway, the last year we spent loads of time togther, he kissed me a bit, and was being very flirty. anyway, after a year of confusion i plucked up the courage to tell him last week, and he told me he didnt see me in that way. i no its not his fault, but im really upset because i feel he was the one insitgating the feelings in the first place, i no he fancies muscular fit guys,a nd i dont fall in to that category. hes always bitching at guys that dont live upto his model ideal looks when were out and now i cant help but think he sees me in that light too. he can be very superficial. i look in the mirror now and all i see is an old tired has been, ic ant face my freinds and i have swicthed for my internet chat and phone for nearly two weeks now and havent been out the house. all my mates r his mates i feel daft. do i give it time and go back to my group of freinds or yet again do i start all over again and start going different places. thing is if i see him out i cant meet other guys cause i have him on my mind, any advice would be good
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reader, tchl +, writes (18 May 2007):
I guess you will be going through hell right now. First I will start by saying things will get better. I know it can be hard after you have told somebody you care about them and they don't feel the same, however you can move on from this as friends. I don't think it is fare that you have let him get away with kissing you for him to now think nothing of you in that department. I would say get over him and be you, you will find somebody when you stop looking, that is the key to finding love stop looking and it will find you. Go back to your friends and hey one day you will look back on this and laugh, anyway your to good for him.
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