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writes:He won't take no for an answer and he's been violent in the past so I'm scared of what to do next. :(Texts: (btw, the guy he's talking about is my best mate.)Him: y cant i b ur bf still?xxxMe: Cause you argue about the same stuff everyday and you always threaten me! you do the same sh*t everyday!Him: wot i do every day? ur my gf baby.xxxMe: Be a d*ick! No discussion, mate or nothing! Him: no, ur my gf.xxxMe: MATE OR NOTHING!Him: well dont go bk to him and ill shut up bout the pr*ck!xxx(2 minutes later)Him: dont ignore me babe.xxxMe: nothing to sayHim: Ok.im glad ur my gf, im lucky as hell!xxxMe: i told you, i'm not.Him: y not baby?xxxMe: cause i want an easy relationship and that aint ever gonna happen with you!Him: we will when you stop talking to those 2!Me: Look I'm not discussing this! Mates or nothin!Him: Tell me when ur goin to b wi him again. n ur MY gf!xxxHe has anger problems. :/ We have this argument everyday, literally. How do I get rid of him without him going psycho like he always does?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 December 2009):
You have to be strong and ignore him, keeping all the evidence. He does this because he knows you will respond. And I do agree with Emilyanswers, you do need to tell someone. Be brave, he's all talk.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 December 2009):
He only has this power over you. So you get someone else involved.
If he doesn't leave you alone then you tell someone. Tell a teacher or your parents.
You CANNOT let this boy near you if you think he could be violent.
Do not be his mate. Do not be near him ever again if you can help it. Get someone else involved and get them to make it clear he must not contact you again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, NBRS +, writes (14 December 2009):
To be honest, I think this guy sounds like a bit of a controll freak.
If you do not want to get back with him, you shouldn't have to.
Ring u your phone company & get his number blocked, as you shouldn't have to change your number because he won't leave you alone.
If this still does not stop him getting a hold of you, then tell a friend, or ring the police.
You have human right and he is breaching them.
Good luck, & hope this helps.
Keep me posted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI try that but then he just gets angry and says he's coming to my house. I can't involve the police. I just want out of it without him going psycho as usual.
Text I just got: "well when u seiin him?yeh u r.u told me u were my gf so u ARE!xxx"
The capitals totally creep me out. :/
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 December 2009):
Don't reply to any texts whatsoever, and don't remain friends. You have to cut him out of your life now. No friendship, no texts, no nothing. He has you on a string, because you're replying to him. So you don't have anything to do with him. But do keep his texts, because if he doesn't stop, you can take it all to the police and get a restraining order. But you must stop contact now. No replies, no phone calls. If he phones or tries to talk to you, you get away from him. Stop texting back, stop all contact.
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