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writes:My ex told me she wanted to get back together (dated 4 years), but she has a new boyfriend (dated a few months).She told me that breaking up with him would be hard, and she'd do it "very soon"--that was 2 days ago. since then she hasn't called me or returned my phone calls, and I have a nagging suspicion she's been sleeping over at his place. What can I do but wait? Is this a bad sign, or does she just need some time?
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 Well it sounds at the very least that she has no idea of what she really wants, or that she wants both of you!
What do YOU want?! Why did you break up in the first place? If it's something easy and fixable, then good luck.
If it's something to do with trust issues (and I'm guessing that it might be, going on how you think she is still sleeping with her current boyfriend!) then think about it carefully, do you really want to get sucked into that again?
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