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writes: I started going out with my ex about 1 year ago. Our relationship in the past had been quite bad, he had cheated on me. We seperated for about 2 years. Since we got back together, he is different guy, he treats me different, we seem to be a better and different couple.The problem is, now that we are getting serious and I do love him, the past is starting to really bother me, just keep thinking he is going to cheat again, im really strugling to trust him. Its going to be the end of our relationship very soon. Just dont know what to do.Emma
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reader, Shelly2006 +, writes (26 December 2005):
It really depend on what you want and howe much you are letting yourself deal with. Frist he has to have your trust that's important because if things get more serious you don't want to spend the rest of your life worried and afraid of something you never forgave. You not forgiving him is only worring and hurting you. it's preventing you from having any peace and coming to a realization that this is really meant gto be. Are you are holding on tyo something that was never there are is already gone. So ask yourself can you forgive but not forget but still have enough courage to try and work it out are walk away with self wortha nd dignity.
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