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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a year and a half ago. He contacted me and wanted to explain why things happened the way they did back then. long story short, He chose to try to make things work with his son mother and it backfired. They have been apart for 2 months now, and he messaged me a week ago wanting to talk.When we spoke he apologized and confessed he made the wrong choice. We did not speak of getting back together but you could obviously tell he missed me and I admit, I miss him too as well.Well,we had sex...I know I know bad. Not the worse part, he came inside me!. Back then he would always pull out to avoid pregnancy (sorry tmi) this time he didnt even attempt pulling out. Why would he do this? Im so scared now. Any opinions. Guys, ladies all welcome please!
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reader, freeme +, writes (15 June 2011):
 This might have meant a few things.
1. It meant little or nothing, he was simply tired, and off his game, and he made a bad choice. (Had you been drinking?)
2. It could have been an expression of passion toward you. He was caught up in the heat of the moment and felt an outpouring toward you and wanted the 'whole' experience.
3. It might have been an attempt to impregnate you so that the two of you will be together in some respect for the next 18 years. In other words, he might have been trying to make a decision about commitment for you.
Did you ask him why he did this?
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reader, Battista  +, writes (15 June 2011):
Are you on any form of contraception yourself?
If not my advice would be to take a pregnancy test, and also as you chose not to use a condom get checked out for STDs.
When you have the results of those you will be able to make some decisions.
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