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writes:Me and my ex-girlfriend have been talking about getting back together for the past week or so. I was over at my best friends house and we were swimming with him and all of his family. Me and my ex or soon to be girlfriend were having a wonderful time. We were swimming and wrestling and having the best time. My other good friend was with me at the time and we were spending time together before he had to move to Kentucky. I was changing clothes because I was tired of swimming. When I came back out my friend that was gonna move to Kentucky and my ex was making out in the pool. I didn't tell my friend that I saw him. When I confronted my ex about it she really didn't think that it was all a big deal. But it hurt me bad that I would get betrayed like that. The thing is that my friend has a girlfriend that he thinks the world of. I would like to know the reasoning behind all of this and what I should do. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
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reader, zedd +, writes (7 June 2011):
Yes, you were pretty much betrayed. I mean, you were talking about getting back together, had a great time with you but as soon as you walk out, she makes out with your friend? Who has a girlfriend, too? I think it's pretty messed up. Look, I have had some girls in my life but what I always say is that after you have broken up, there's no point in getting back together. For a while, it's OK, but then the same things happen again and again and there you are again, wasting your time on something that just doesn't work out for you. I've been there, done that, never worked out for me either.
You're really young, for you this is the time to meet girls and find out what you like about them and stuff. Personally, I wouldn't like a girl like her. I know because I wasted too much time in the past on girls like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): Forget about a relationship with your ex... she clearly has no idea what boundaries are, as she crossed them doing that. She didn't even understand the "big deal", which is ridiculous. If she really cared and wanted you she wouldn't be doing stupid things like that, when she knew you were right there at the house for goodness sakes!!
So I suggest, strongly, to cut ties with this girl.
I also would confront your friend, because he played just as much part in the betrayal, what kind of friend does that?!
He really should tell his gf... Not so sure what to do about that... It could get ugly if you go and tell her yourself.. it needs to come from him.
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