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writes:Its me again. This girl - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help--how-can-i-move-on-with.htmlI am still dealing with the breakup. It really hurts at times and i dont know what to do. I want to thank all you guys for the advice. I started writing songs and drawing when Im sad to let it out. I know theres the hole thats meant to be will find its way and i know if he cheated he wasnt good. Everything he said to me was probably a lie so I would stick around. Even after he shattered my heart I still love him with all the little pieces. What can I do to stop this? I hate feeling sad and everything seems to remind me of him..Thank you all for your support it means the world to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 If you can't solve it, it isn't a problem - it's reality. And sometimes reality is the hardest thing to understand and the thing that takes the longest to realize.
But once it hits you in the face you'll never forget it. It will always be there in your memories and sometimes that is the best way to look at it.
Don't fight it .It's hard to accept, but you can't change the past. You can't go back and manipulate things to the way you wanted them to happen.
But you can change the future and that's a beautiful thing about life.
Yes, you will make mistakes. And yes, you will have bad days - but as long as you let the past go, you'll have such a gorgeous and bright future ahead of you.
Knowing that things were meant to happen. Knowing that each day you will learn something so that you keep growing to be a better person.
Just change your perceptions or look at life from a different angle.
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reader, Tussel  +, writes (8 March 2010):
my girlfriend just recently (not even a week ago) broke up with me because she has a crush on another guy...i still love her but the pain is horrible...all i have really been able to take comfort in is the fact im not alone...if you want to talk sometime PM me :) its hard living your life after a huge part of it is taken away but im sure that the right person is waiting out there
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reader, Kenj +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Breakups do hurt a lot, they can take a long time to get over but you will get over it.
There is a man out there for you somewhere, someone who appreciates you for who you are and who will put your feelings ahead of his own.
Try taking a few days holiday, get out of the area for a while. Leave it a few months then start dating again.
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