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writes: I dont know what is going on.... Me and my girlfriend have been fighting alot lately over stupid things. she tells me I'm too caring so I show how much I care a little less and then I'm not caring enough. She wants me to more open with my feeling and then when I do just as she asks she hates what she hears. She wanted more communication in our relationship and I start communicating with her yet when I ask her whats wrong or why she feels a certain way its always "I dont know" or "I dont care" or "it doesnt matter". Ive gotten to the point where I dont know what to say to her anymore. I love her to death and nothing will ever change that. shes just being so confusing lately and when we do get into one of these fights she always wants to end it then a couple hours later she starts appologizing and wants me back. how do I deal with this.... why does everything I seem to do be wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): I think that both of you are taking advantage of each other. It is very easy to do. When you get use to someone always being there, you tend to pick on the smallest of arguments. Although I can point out your problem, I cannot solve it. I recently realized my boyfriend and I have the same exact problem. But I really have no clue how to fix it.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Stop changing the way things are as you will never win. Like the too open or too caring. If you are being the same now as you have the whole way through your relationship then it's not you with the issue. It's her. Talk to her and ask her what's wrong. If she says she doen't know or doesnt care tell her that isn't an answer or isn't a good enough one as you can't go on having these arguments with her. There has to be an underlining problem and how can you help sort it if she wont tell you what it is?! Don't take the picking up and dropping crap every time there is a fall out either it isn't fair!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): It seems that she doesnt know what she wants and she is a lot like myself in my relationship. My girlfriend never communicates to me and she tells me the way she feels and I get mad. Because what she says really hurts me and I feel that she is only with me because she loves me, not because she is in love with me. I think you both need to step back and find out what you really like and dislike about each other and figure that out.
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