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writes:Im in a relationship that i don't like but i don't know how to come out of it. Everything about my b/f disgust me. I want out, but i don't know how. Pls i need help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Paul simon has a famous song called 50 ways to leave your lover. It goes,"slip out the back jack, make a new plan stan, no need to be coy roy, just listen to me. Hop on the bus gus. No need to discuss much. Just drop off the key lee and get yourself free." Its really that easy. Just peace him out!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 "This relationship isn't working for me any longer. Unfortunately, I do not feel what I should for a boyfriend for you, so it is time to part. I am sorry for any hurt I may be causing, but this is better for you and me in the long run. You deserve to have a woman who loves you and alas, that woman is not me. I hope that we can be friends someday, but for right now, I need for you to let me go."
Then keep a no-contact rule.
Be firm, be gentle, but have resolve. No contact, so you don't have to have endless discussions about this. If he wants to know why, you could tell him, but try not to be mean about it.
Good luck.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (22 December 2009):
Just tell him what you have told us. Its only hard until you start to speak.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Your best to be honest and break him the truth. Sometimes it hurts, but we are better off learning from our mistakes.
What ever you do don't leave him with question marks in his mind otherwise you could find it difficult to let him go. Be clear and resonable.
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