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30-35,
*tepanie2009
writes:well i been waiting for this guy for a long time...... everybody tells me i should move on.... i ask him out and he said i cryied for him i did everthing..... he tells he loves and he aways tells to sit next to him... so i do and he tells he wants me.... but then he awys flirting with aother girls... i feel like hes just playing games with me..so i met this aother guy i met in a class i dont know but since that day i cant forget him,,, he smile at me and the way he looked at me something that he impress me... i worte him a letter that i liked him... and he hasnt worte back..he sometime stars at me but i dont know im doing the right thing?????????
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reader, llleow  +, writes (9 May 2008):
Just cool down and think whether he is really the guy that you want to be with.Is it for a short term or long term? Maybe after this you will fall for other guy?Who is much more better than him. The other ways to do it is try to do something for yourself. Try to develope some interests of your own or hangs out with friends, join a club or society while waiting for his reply. YOu may find out that you feel better even though he won't bother to reply to your letter at least your mind are occupied with something else. If you get lucky you may find someone who is with the same interest like you. If not, then the more you mixed with other people you will learn more bout yourself through other people experience and your direction in life. Who cares if he still not reply your letter in the next few months time!!! While you are already brave enough and happy to get more friends and impress other guy who is more suitable for you. Be brave... It is always easy to say than done but first step is occupy your life with something more productive while awaiting for his reply.
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reader, RickysWordsOf Wiz  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 What yo feel is an instinct that most humans try to surpass with logic. outside influences are never a help, and sometimes can just confuse you. If you are worried that these boys aren't giving back to what your putting in then it's down to one of two things.
I'm a guy, one who didn't really know what i should feel towards a lot of things including relationships. You sound like a very passionate individual whom is seeking some kinda sign from these guys that they acknowledge you perhaps more than just a friend, but as someone who can give back emotionally like yourself.
1. Ask him outright? honesty is and isn't the best policy. one you could get the answer you were looking for, and two you could get shut down. but either way you'll get your answer and if they give you a maybe don't ecept it. don't loose your composure or your cool, just speak to him like yo'd like to be spoken to. As gut wrenching as it is.
2. The other way is a little more devious and should provoke a reaction, from that you'll get you answer. I'm not saying go hop on all the boys, I'm saying just be yourself and show him what he's missing. have fun with your friends and the rest will follow. and the first time he tries to get back into your life just play it cool and say "maybe" sometime next week I'm super busy. most likely you'll see that the right boys will come along when your happiest in yourself.
Hope this is of some help. and most importantly don't loose your passion just use it to make you happy.
Best of luck , Ricky
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