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writes:Everyone in my school thinks i am a 'bof' when i'm not they don't even have good reasons for that. it hurts so much because they are often horrible jokes. I'll be lucky if i ever get a boyfriend because of whatt these people say. They all say if i change and roll my skirt up and wear make up i won't be called a 'bof' and to be myself. But i've always been myself and nothing but. What should i do 2 stop this WITHOUT changin who i am? Reply to this Question
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reader, vervada123 +, writes (2 June 2007):
vervada123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all the adive, its great !
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Do not change who you are.These people will not stop you etting a real boyfriend, as if he cares he will look past their childish bullying.What im about to say may sound like "Shut up" "You dont know anything" advice. But it is helpful and help me through tough times at school. Just ignore them. If they insult you say 'Rubber and Glue' things like "Yeah thats great"After that since you dont react they get bored and move on.Good luck. Summers nearly here
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reader, DV1  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Keep being yourself. If you give in to what everyone else wants to be, you will forget who you are.
DV1
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): School is one of the hardest things you will ever have endure. The old saying that "school will be the best years you ever have..." was made up by the popular bitchy kids. When I was at school i was called a bof and it hurts. You can only be yourself because thats who you are. im sure you are not the only one that they pick on and that you do have friends. My advise dont rise to the bait. Life does get better becasue as you get older you have more of a choice of where your social circle is and you will meet some great likeminded people.Good luck and keep your head high!
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