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writes:I really like this guy and I have done for months. We both work together and I had the feeling that he liked me too. Basically I know loads of guys at work because there are mostly men working there and when I first started working there a lot of the guys were flirting with me and asking me out but I didn't go out with any of them. The other guys at work have sort of distanced themselves from me now and I thought it had something to do with this guy I like- maybe he told them he was going to ask me out.The other day, me and the guy I like were working together and he is the only guy I can have a laugh with and who I can really say is a proper friend. Anyway he said he would take me out on the weekend and asked me if I wanted to go on a weekend date with him. But I automatically said 'No, I'm busy doing something with my family on the weekend' even though I'm seriously not. I don't know why I said this, it just came out probably because I was nervous or soemthing.I really do want to go out with him. Anyway since that day I've not seen him at work and not had a chance to explain myself. What do you think I should say when I speak to him becuase I don't want him to think I'm messing him around because he is a friend
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reader, pinkgoddess  +, writes (1 June 2007):
Do you know his phone number? Why not give him a call and say your weekend plans have changed so if he is still up for doing something then you would love to come. Don't make it too complicated and try and explain yourself. All he needs to know is you are free now and want to meet up with him
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reader, candy00s +, writes (1 June 2007):
 If you want to go out with him and be more than just his friend then next time you see him ask if you can talk to him in private and explain to him that you like him and you only said no because you were nervous and werent expecting it.
Im sure if you tell him that you like him to he will be pleased and want to take you out.
Go for it!
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