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writes:For the past few months now ive had really strong feelings about a girl i work with, its now got to the point where i cant stop thinking of her all day and night! This girl is amazing, tall, funny and mind blowingly stunning! Where as im just your average Joe guy. Ive never had trouble asking a girl out before but everytime i intend to ask this girl out i fold! My hands start to shake and my heart races and i just give up (stupid i know). Im at the point now where i think i should give up as its causing sleeples nights and the fear of all this time and prep to just be shot down or laughed at. Any advice would be great.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 October 2014):
 Well if you KNOW a girl well enough to ask her out, why not send her flowers and ask her out in the card? Or if it's too hard to do in person, ask in a text?
Only thing I think you REALLY need to consider is, CAN you handle going to work with her EVERY day if she turns you down? And do you really think dating a co-worker is a smart move?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2014): Just talk to her first. As you work together why not offer to fetch some coffee/tea/juice for a few colleagues and include her in the group? That way it wont seem like you are asking just her and you will find out what she likes. You will also appear kind. When you deliver her order you could stop for a little chat and whenever you feel comfortable gently suggest that you get out of work for a while and go for some air at your break. Suggest a nearby park or coffee house. Keep things light and friendly. You will probably talk about something she likes to do, so when your nerves have settled around her and you feel more comfortable, you could suggest that you do something together. Baby steps and you wont feel intimidated. Good luck.
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