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writes:Hi, I'm a 23 year old engaged girl. Me and my fiancé were in different places, only communication through chat and fone..Ours is an arranged one.. once he tried to be horny but I was not comfortable at that time.. later we had nice talks.. and kisses..Now the problem is his work became so hectic that we don't have enough time for us and when I call him he is so tired..I really wanted to make him in mood (on fone)...how I could? ..pls tell me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): I will tell you an example.Lets say I criticized someone.That guy will think that I am at the back of him the next time I ask him for anything.I might think I am married,so no one would take me wrong.I still have to walk on eggshells.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Bugs sounds very well informed and to be talking a lot of sense. Not that I know a lot about Indian men. But men in general like to do the chasing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): Dear Girl!Wake up!Its India.
An Indian male is a totally different species altogether.I personally believe they are aliens from Mars.They are just acting as humans.Now seriously ,congratulations on your upcoming marriage.
If I may give you some advice Please Please take it in the right manner as I only have your happiness in mind
* Stop calling him.Let him call you.By this the Indian guy thinks you are traditional
*If he tries to talk about sex with you say "Sab Shaadi ke baad" translated as "After marriage".This gives him the opinion that you are conservative.He will start trusting you.
*Be loving to him.Ask him if he has eaten.I think phone kisses are fine.Be very careful when you are touching him before marriage.Many of my friends have been told "You dared to touch me before marriage.How would I know how many other men had you been with?"
I am not saying all Indian Men are like this.Most of them are.Since you both have gone in for an arranged marriage I would bet that he is brought up in a conservative household.
Last but not the least Don't make the first move.An Indian male loves to pursue.He definitely doesn't like to be pursued.I have seen this tactic work in most of the cases.
Take care.All the best.
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 In the mood for what? Just to talk or sex talk?
If he is really very tired it is probably near to impossible to get him to talk. Give him some space, he will start missing your calls and will call you himself when he is ready for a normal chat.
Good luck x
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