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writes:I have been with this guy for two years now and idk if i can trust him or not...hes never given me a reason not to trust him but yet i always wonder about it! we "broke up" a year ago but we are still "together" but without a title! i used to trust him SOO much but now i dont know! hes a big flirt and he talks to a lot of girls! he used to cheat on his ex but he swears hes changed and he would never do anything that stupid to me and that he loves me. He says i need to have more faith in him but idk how. Hes never really done anything to make me doubt him. He makes me feel special and he treats me good he and hes also romantic (for the most part) i dont know what to think or do...i want to trust him but how do i know if i can?? help me please!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 What you write is a bit confusing to me. If you broke up a year ago, and now you are together again but without a title, - I guess this means that you are not in a committed relationship anymore, or that you are dating casually, albeit often, or something like that.
In this case, it's not really a matter of trusting him or not, because if he did not promise you to be exclusive with you, basically he has the right to do what he wants.
If instead you have agreed to date each other exclusively, then you ARE boyfriend and girlfriend and at this point why not having the title, i.e. why not admitting that you are in a steady relationship ?
Maybe some detail of the situation escaped me.
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