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Engaged but thinking of the other guy. What should I do?

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Question - (21 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Egypt age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

my name is "Sh" i've been in a long lasting crush over a guy i know since i was 15 years old. for the last 3 years we were talking and he was flirting all the time but never said anything serious.

recently i met another guy he was serious from the start and i agreed to get engaged...

its been 6 months and until now i dont enjoy his company...i never miss him...he is continuously asking to speed up the process and get married but i really dont want to leave coz he's a god person but i still dont want to marry him.

however, the other guy came back home and wants to settle down and he started seeing a girl who's one of my sister's close friends it triggered me so much and i feel this tremendous pain in my heart...i want to get over him but i still think of him all the time and at the same time i'm so afraid of regretting leaving my fiance.

what shall i do go on with my current fiance though i always believe i could get better or shall i leave him and wait and c what life holds for me?

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