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writes: I've been with my fiance for about 1 year and 3 months. We've been having some problems. I don't feel the connection we once had that mad me feel like I was walking on air. We argue a lot. I think mainly because we're together a lot but, I need to know is there a way that we can work things out and get that spark that made each other just want to jump on each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): Are there any kids around you? Do you have time to spend just being together. Could you two not go away for a weekend. Maybe a change of scene. Get some nice underwear and woo him a bit. If you can't afford a break away then why not cook his favourite meal, dim and lights and dress up a bit, he might just feel a bit neglected and who knows that could kick start him into doing something for you. Things usually settle down after a while. I can be seen as a good thing but i know what you mean. That lovely omph from early days can easily fizzle down but don't let it fizzle away. I've only been with my fella 18months, we live together with our kids, we are engaged and life can be hard, but pick out the good.
Take care and i hope it all works out for you two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): first pamper yourself have a day just for you. make you feel good. look good feel good. make a night for just the two of you bot wine candles massage each other talk about special times men need to feel loved just as much as us girls. do this more often all ways look after you, making yourself feel special because you are. i hope this helps take care
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reader, LISAG +, writes (21 November 2006):
 Time apart from each other does work, you get to miss one another. I don't mean to split, I mean to make time for yourself on your own and he will have to too. See more of your friends, hobbies etc. Living in each others pockets is a strain for both of you. The spark in relationships always fizzles out a bit after time, it's natural. Get reading some books on the subject, there's hundreds out there filled with great advice on how to keep the spark alive. Relationships need work, they don't just magically continue to be in their "honeymoon" period forever.
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