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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:We are trying to get together after a break up. I feel neglected when my boyfriend and my best friend get together. every time we meet together its making me off. He dont even look at me. She is his friend too. they both use to laughing all the time. My friend always trying to be closer to him. a little bit touching and all this... before our break up, I told him that I feel like a odd one but he never understood. That time she had a break up and i cared for her a lot. My bf and I never had a time with each other. We 3 always used to go for movies. sometimes she seated between both of us... (Don't laugh please!)every time we met it ended up with an argument with me and my boyfriend. Every time they both went away and I was the only one alone. Now she is happily married with other guy and I broke up with my love. we both miss each other. Even now when we 3 meet I feel like a fool one. They have so much to talk and sometimes i just want to leave. It makes me crazy. I found I am going to hate our friendship. I love him a lot and don't want to lose him again. I feel she stole my friend. I want to get over. sometime I wish I woke up and if i could forget them both. What should I do? she uses me till the date. I am happy for her and don't want to hate her so I limit my contacts with her. was I wrong to let them get too close. how should I get over this? We live separately with our families (with lots of members) living relationships are not common in India. so Its become very hard to work on our before marriage relationships. we have a 12 year old friendship/relationship. Please help me to get him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): If you dont want to wreck your friendship with you friend and bf then you need to talk to him! Say how you feel and if nothing changes find another guy. Talk to your friend too and tell her how you feel. If she is a true friend she will understand. Find sometime to go out JUST with your bf. If you feel like he doesnt look at you, or if he ignores you ask yourself if he is worth it. You dont want to spend your whole life feeling ignored if you ever get married. Listen to your heart and good luck.
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