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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:It's been a rocky road for me and my ex. This guy is 22 and he and I are expecting our baby in October. He is happy that he is going to be a dad. Sometimes he says he is not excited. But, he tends to change his mind. 3 weeks ago he moved in with his parents again. We could not live together, All he took was his clothing. He left his most valuble stuff here. He left his gaming systems, and all sorts of sporting equiptments. During the time he was living to his moms. He was calling me to see how I was, and to ask me about my opinion on his life events. He would stop over to see how I was doing. The last time we spoke on civil terms was when out of the blue one day, he decides to ask if I would mind if my son (not his) could go to the park with him. He came and got him, showed off his new car to me and left. A few days went by and he was seen with a girl. I had this feeling that he was seeing her. Someone had told me that they were dating. So I got very angry and wrote him a letter, saying that I wanted him to come and move the rest of his stuff out, and we were done. We were never getting back together again. Then I notice he deletes me off his contacts everywhere. I called him to confront him. He was very angry, and said he deleted me because I wrote him a chapter book on his account. He also said that I was stupid. He tells me he would be here in a few days to get his things. And I told him that I wanted them out now. He then yells "well keep them, throw them out, sell them, I dont give a f**k what you do with them. Then hangs up on me. The next day his new women approaches my friend at work says "I am kind of seeing her ex, and I know about the pregnancy, I just dont want any trouble". I got mad and wrote her. She claims he did not cheat on me. And says whoever I got my information from was wrong. Why would he tell me to sell stuff that means so much to him? Why would he not admit to the new girl? And why would he cut off all contact with me, if I am having his baby? Instead of just up and leaving us, he took my son out for some bonding time...why would he do this if he planned on leaving me for this other girl? I do admit that I have been hanging out with an ex, and he may have heard about it. It seriously bothers me that he has cut off all contact with me. I am having his baby! Also, that he would not even tell me about him dating another person. I know he is very angry why would he tell me to sell everything he owns?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, It was just so weird. Two days before the first day him and this girl meant up. He had asked if he could take my son out for the evening. I feel he knew he was leaving and he was saying his goodbyes. It threw me off when he said he would be back to get him to take him out again.
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