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writes: I'm a 24 year old woman from Bolton in Greater Manchester and my boyfriend's 28 and works away from home.Recently I have been receiving photographs of men in their underwear which are highly sexual and shocking - and addressed to my boyfriend.I even get emails addressed to him (we share an email address) with these pictures; and other pictures of men in swimwear/underwear and male models etc.I want to confront him about this, but do not know how. He's away for 10 weeks at the moment so I can't talk to him. I tried phoning his mobile; it's always switched off when I try.When we're together, he's a decent, generous, loving person; now I am worried about our relationship and think there's no future for it.What is the best way to deal with this??Jacquixxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Ask him if he is gay or at least bi? then go from there
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (10 April 2006):
 I think you definitely need to talk to him. Maybe it is something innocent? Who are emails from? Automatically generated from a website? from someone he knows? from random people?
Or maybe, he is interested in his own sex.
I think that you are only going to find out when you speak to him and I you have to decide if that is a phone conversation or a face to face one?
Personally I would attack it face to face? Where is he working? Is it possible to say meet him on the weekend or for him to come home one weekend? Or can you wait until he returns to sit down and discuss it then?
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