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*iany2009
writes:Ok so Ive been with my Boyfriend for over year we had some problems at the begining with him leing and various other things that went very wrong last year, In August last year we split up for a month and since getting back together in September he has completly changed he doesn't lie to me he does everything he can for me, in general were very happy, we feel as though we are soulmates we have lots in common and love eachother company, In January I found out I was pregnany and after everything that happend last year I was very scared that he would hurt me again, he was also scared but from the very start said everything would be fine he would make sure of it, he wouldn't want a baby with anyone else and he wanted this to last forever, again things have continued to be amazing im now 5 months pregnant and were having a boy ! :) but I cant trust him and its driving me mad and will drive us apart im sure, I check his facebook and emails everyday deleting friend requests I dont know (girls) since wev'e been back together ive never found anything on there at ALL but i still look! hes in the army and in germany and yesterday he got a friend request from a girl behind the bar in one of the clubs, I asked her if he knew her and she said "yeh we met last night " i asked other questions and nothing had happend they had liteerly just spoken! but he had told me that he wasn't going out so this caused a massive argument and brought back bad feelings from last year, he said he lied becuase the weekend before I had moaned at him about spending loads of money at the weekend and he knows that I worry when he goes out and he didnt want me to, Now he has changed his passwords so i canrt look and i have promised i will try, but im finding this very hard, I know he loves me and wouldn't hurt me deep down but I cant stop this constant mistrust im scared it means we will have to seperate but I love him with all my heart I just want to stop it and enjoy our relationship ! Please please help me :'(
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Thank you! You are welcome !
What you feared the most, it will come to past. Thus have no fear because perfect love cast out all fears.
You only have one life and you need to live to the fullest. There is no rewind in your life.
Worries and fears are like two heavy stones you tie on your neck.
Be free like a eagle and soar up to the sky and fly as far as your eyes can see.
Live for today and let tomorrow takes care of itself. Treat each day as it comes because no one knows if tomorrow will surely come . No one can guarantee that.
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reader, siany2009 +, writes (24 May 2010):
siany2009 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :) Thats a lovely awnser x
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (24 May 2010):
Whatever will happen will happen. You cannot change the future or things that will come to past.Everything is really fated.
Just live in the present and enjoy each day as it comes. Stop worrying whether he will cheat on you . You cannot prevent it if he wants to cheat.
Be happy always .
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