BF has other priorities than a relationship... should I wait for him?
Q. I have been seing this guy for over a year now. its basically an open relationship. it strictly sexual when we first started it. But as time passed by, we both started getting attached. I know he cares for me but the problem is he doesnt show it. He ...
A. 8 November 2009: Im working through a similar issue and the answer is no, you should definitely not wait. If, after a year, he is not into a relationship, then he never will be. Maybe this can be revisited in 5 years when he is ready to settle down, but thats a long ... (read in full...)
Eloping this weekend... then how do I tell my parents when we get back?
Q. i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in ...
A. 8 November 2009: I agree. If you are worried about your parent's approval, you are not mature enough to get married. Also, if you have not been able to openly date him, there is definitely something else wrong.
Anyway, the best way is to tell them BEFORE. If you i... (read in full...)
Why do I feel this need to have a baby?
Q. I want a baby. I don't even feel I need a husband or boyfriend. Also I don't need to hear about how hard they are to take care of, I have babysat twin boys since they were born for 3 years now, everyday all day since their parents have very ...
A. 8 November 2009: I saw this question and had to add my two cents. I am 24 and have felt this since I turned 18.
ITS GENETICS.
Our minds are programmed for this, along with the minds of every other mammal. In the same way that a guys mind is programmed to da... (read in full...)
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